Monday, March 5, 2012

why are they/we single?


The real question we all have to ask ourselves is WHY am I still single? If I really want a partner, or just an appendage that can fit into the blanks in my own personal relationship madlib. I am single because of trust. I have been divorced twice, and burned badly by lies. I start out not trusting and you will have to earn my respect and my trust. I am sorry, but there it is.

The truth is that not many people I have met the last few years seem to have actual “partnership potential”. I have learned the hard way that with out it I am much better on my own. I already have plenty of friends.


Seeking:

An emotionally available guy, with a good job, a working vehicle, and healthy friendships of his own. He has the ability to consistently demonstrate a sense of honesty, integrity, and loyalty. A man that has discipline and compassion, realistic goals, room in his life to grow into a real and healthy relationship with a loving woman, and the ability and desire to openly and effectively communicate with a real partner. Not addicted to, or overly dependent on behaviors, cigarettes, drugs or alcohol.

-in other words, a healthy, handsome guy that is not a emotionally stunted or a sociopath- funny, isn't that what every woman wants?

No. I am not angry, a little disillusioned and jaded perhaps, but not really angry. I just know what I am and am not willing to put up with. Please just take my word for it and don't test me, I am not your mama.



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